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The only cookies here are the ones that keep you signed in to your own archive. Vercel counts visits without setting a cookie. Nothing follows you off the site.
Last updated 25 September 2026.
Cookies we set
When you sign in, our authentication provider (Supabase) sets the session cookies that let the app know it’s you on your next visit. They exist so you don’t have to type your password every time, they carry no tracking, and they go when you sign out. Cookies like these are classed as strictly necessary — which is why there is no cookie banner: there is nothing optional to consent to.
Local storage we do use
The app keeps two small things in your browser’s local storage: a cache of your profile (the names, so the archive opens faster — cleared when you sign out), and any half-written reflection, so navigating away doesn’t lose your words (kept until you save it). Your answers themselves live in your account, not in the browser — see the privacy policy for how they’re protected.
The letter form
The email box on the public pages posts to our own server. It does not set a cookie and does not load a third-party tracker.
What we don’t have
No Google Analytics. No Meta pixel. No session recording, heat maps, fingerprinting or remarketing of any kind. We make a place for two people to keep what is between them on paper; we don’t need to follow either of you around the internet.
The visit count
Vercel records an anonymous page-view count on the public pages — the homepage, the questions, the two comparison pages, and pages like this one. A signed-in browser is not counted, and the archive, an invitation link and what you write are never sent. It does not set a cookie and is not tied to your account or what you write. In aggregate it records the page, where the visit came from, the country and the kind of device. See the privacy policy for the same disclosure.
For visitors who are not signed in, we also count selected button clicks on those public pages, and two things about the occasional-letter form: that someone started typing, and that we accepted the request. Only fixed labels are sent. The address and what was typed are not. Accepting the request does not mean the letter was delivered, and clicking through to membership does not mean an account or a payment was completed.
Your choice
If you block cookies for this site, signing in will stop working — that’s all they do. The visit count is not a cookie, so it is not something a banner would need to warn you about. A private browsing window works fine too; you’ll simply be signed out when you close it, and your archive will be waiting in your account next time.